Authentic Self
On a warm, sunny afternoon, we stumbled upon the 100th episode of our Fishing Without Bait podcast. It was a moment of synchronicity and serendipity, where 1+1 equaled 3. While walking through this world living a life without definitive expectations, I often seek out like-minded individuals. In celebration of Episode 100, I was joined by two individuals I hold in high regard—Samantha and Laura.
Meeting Samantha and Laura: Samantha and Laura are two "lovely young ladies," who share their journeys towards finding and embracing their authentic selves. They discuss the power of living without the constraints of societal expectations, which often distort our self-perception and life choices.
The Journey to Authentic Self: Samantha opens up about what "authentic self" means to her. She describes it as shedding all external influences that have tried to mold her into someone she isn't, revealing the person she truly is. Discovering her authentic self was freeing, albeit initially uncomfortable. Through self-reflection and acceptance, she grew to love and be proud of who she is.
Laura’s Adventure in Life: Laura shares her perspective on life as an ongoing adventure, highlighting her evolution into someone who actively chooses happiness daily. She talks about helping others identify and break free from their cocoons—metaphorically speaking—and aiding them in planning a life that reflects their true desires and happiness.
The Challenge of Asking for Help: Many people face difficulty in asking for help, which often involves admitting one's vulnerabilities. Both Samantha and Laura share their thoughts about the comfort of the familiar, even when it's confining, like staying within a cocoon. It’s about emphasizing the importance of stepping out into the world to truly find and light up one's authentic self.
Impactful Encounters and Mentoring: The impact of transformations—not only on oneself but also as a beacon for others, especially younger individuals is important. There is an importance in being role models and mentors, and helping others navigate the challenges of identity and self-esteem that often begin in childhood.
Gratitude and Positive Impacts: Samantha shares how embracing gratitude has profoundly changed her outlook on life, making it difficult to have a bad day. She stresses the significance of focusing on what one is grateful for, rather than dwelling on desires for different circumstances.
The Power of Real Stories: Both Laura and Samantha emphasize the importance of sharing real, substantive stories rather than superficial advice. Their experiences, openly shared, are meant to inspire and guide others through similar struggles, promoting a sense of community and support.
A Final Word—Keep Going: My final message today is clear: keep going, be true to yourself, and continue doing kindnesses for others. It's about the journey of continuous self-discovery and the positive impacts one can make along the way.
You are invited to embrace your authentic selves, transform your lives through mindfulness and genuine connections, and impact the world positively, one interaction at a time.
